January 1, 2020

Welcome to the 1st day of the 3rd decade of the 21st century. Seems like we were just partying like it was 1999. Do you remember where you were that New Year’s Eve, December 31, 1999? How can it be 2020 already?

As the Doodle and I begin this new year, I’m thinking back over the past 20 years. So many happy times with friends and family. So many sad times as well.

There are days the happy memories are strong. The good old days. Births, weddings, reunions, kitchen table laughs, parties, camping, vacations, holidays at the Lonsingers. These are the memories that put a smile on my face and warmth in my heart.

Then there are days the sad memories are in control. Fights with friends, family conflict, children struggles, loss of a job, breakups, deaths of those I love. These are the memories that darken the day and open again the anguish in my heart.

But it’s with strength and sincerity I can say that I’m thankful for everything and everyone that have been a part of my life. The good and the bad. The yin and the yang.

The Ancient Chinese concept of Yin and Yang can be described as follows:

“yin and yang is a concept of dualism, describing how seemingly opposite or contrary forces may actually be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world, and how they may give rise to each other as they interrelate to one another.”

Man has this been true in my life! An endless cycle of good and bad times. Ups and downs. Hope and despair. I’ve tried my best to live in the good but the bad always seems to creep back in. The yin and the yang.

‘It is what it is’ was what my late wife said through her journey with cancer. She had accepted the truth of her illness, the bad, and had decided to live out her days in the good. She understood that human life is a constant cycle of yin and yang. And through her example I too now understand.

So, as I roll along in the 61st year of my life, I’m at peace with the past and the future. Both the good and bad that has been and is to come. I know the past and do not know the future but today and each day, I will do my best to live in both the yin and the yang. To the fullest. And with an assurance that both are okay and I will be too.

Exciting good and bad days are ahead in 2020. I’m ready to get going.

See you down the road….

One thought on “January 1, 2020

  1. Good morning Jon!
    Happy New Year!!! Another year gone too quickly (2019) and a new year upon us. I am with you, how did it get to be 2020 already???
    I was thinking about Y2K. At the strike of midnight when we thought everything was going to go awry, Tony flipped the lights off and freaked us out!!! He couldn’t help himself he said. The look on our faces when he turned the lights back on….well it was funny after we got over the shock.
    Crazy kid!!!
    Our lives have certainly changed over the years. I don’t want the stress eating at me anymore. I would rather spend time with my kids and grandchildren and friends that feed my soul. Listening to friends and their experiences I find we have a lot in common. We may have grown up differently but we are going through the same thing now.
    I pray that you find your joy, have good health and love abundantly.
    May 2020 be a great adventure!!!
    God bless!!!

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